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Two tables away

What if they're sitting just a few feet from you?

Maybe. And you'll never know unless someone says it out loud. You're sitting in a café, a food court or at a bar, watching the people around you, and it crosses your mind that you'd happily spend a bit of free time with someone nice — you just don't have the nerve to speak to a stranger. Someone two tables away may be feeling exactly the same. Without Timity, it ends the way it always does: you both get up, pay and go your separate ways. With Timity, you can let people know — and whoever's in the same boat will reach out. Maybe even the one in the next booth.

A moment you'll recognise

Lunch in town, a coffee between two meetings, an hour in a food court before the train. Around you sit people in much the same position: they've got a moment, they're in no hurry, they're looking around. Maybe one of them would rather spend that time in company. But speaking to a stranger a few tables away is a step almost nobody takes, because you never know how it will land. So you each sit at your own table with your own phone, and half an hour later you each go your separate ways.

What changes with Timity

Timity helps you take exactly that first step. You share a few words about what you're up for ("coffee and a chat, I've got half an hour") and a sign to recognise you by ("grey jumper, by the window"). Nobody sees you as a profile; only people within range right now can see you, and only while you're sharing. If someone nearby also has the time and the inclination, they reach out. Only then do you decide whether to move two tables over — or not.

Where it works best

One small trick to finish

Put something in your sign that can be seen from a few tables away: the colour of your jumper, your mug, a book. Whoever reaches out will have spotted you before they even stand up.

Timity — here and now

A local app for spontaneous real-life meetups. Share that you’re free right now and meet the people around you.

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